Happy faces and wide smiles everywhere. Celebrations, accomplishments and all things good take the limelight – be it everyday life or social media. Almost as if we are not allowed to connect with our deepest feelings of sorrow and grief. Toxic positivity is a thing that never gets addressed often in this world where everyone is either obsessed of being happy or is pretending to be happy.
Only if we bring a culture where melancholy is not looked down upon, will we be able to discuss openly about fears that lie deep inside the darkest corner of our hearts. Only then will we learn to understand each other better, only then will we be able to get rid of each other’s happy masks to have a heart-to-heart talk about something that is simmering inside us.
What we fail to realise is that there is beauty in melancholy too. What we fail to do as a society is have a more inclusive outlook where everyone’s feelings, nature and emotions of sorrow are respected.
It’s not really about cheering someone up. It’s about being just there for someone who is going through a rough patch. It’s about being a patient listener and feeling the pinch of someone else’s moments of grief.